Schizophrenia and Families

Should I try to talk someone out of a delusion?

No. You can't. They are FIXED by definition.

- Calmly, and without judgment explain that you do not share that particular belief.

- If the person is receptive, you might even say that you believe that the other person's mind might be playing tricks on them and that it may be hard for them to see it at the time. If the person grows agitated or angry, try to convey that you respect their point-of-view even if you don't share it. Statements such as "we'll have to agree to disagree" can be helpful.

What can I as a family member do to help someone suffering from schizophrenia?

- First, take care of yourself.

- Attend to your own emotional response to the diagnosis.

- Most families go through a period of mourning;

- taking care of a loved one with active psychosis is a 24-hour-a-day job. You can't do it alone.

- contact Skyland Trail or NAMI (nami.org).

- Develop a support network in your community.

- Have a list of friends or family you can call on to help share the burden and problem solve.

- Be supportive.

- Be an advocate. Write or call your elected officials, let them know you are concerned about access to healthcare.

- Get to know your relative's care team and stay in touch (with your relative's consent).

- Be realistic in what you can expect.

- Give your relative space: most of those suffering from schizophrenia need plenty of space, especially when symptoms are flaring up.

What are some resources that can help those who suffer from thought disorders and their families?

A: Skyland Trail is an outstanding resource. Others include:

Your mental health providers would be happy to provide you with additional information for everything from medication side effects to support groups.